Friday, April 29, 2011

What came first THE SEX OR THE LOVE?


What came first THE SEX OR THE LOVE?

Studies show me that SEX is an animal erge or instinct and that LOVE is an emotion that can’t truly be explained with words. So when someone tells me that there having issue in there relationship because of SEX then I can confidently say that LOVE may have taking a vacation. SEX can play a fun role in our LOVE lives but never can it play a major role. It always makes me wonder, are you really in LOVE or has LOVE taking a siesta? Let's wake it up. I would say I’m a pretty passionate person and I truly enjoy the heck out of SEX but in my personal research and first hand expierence (no pun) I can say that SEX is just SEX and something that has absolutely no ties to LOVE should never dictate how we enjoy our partners in any way.
We live in a very experimental society now and it’s becoming more and more acceptable to be sexually curious some would even say it’s healthy, I absolutely agree. However do not be confused by this, I believe that it’s not a healthy SEX life that makes a good relationship I believe it’s a healthy relationship that makes a good relationship. Honesty in any relationship will carry 100% more weight then SEX and I will stand by the statement front and center. Again I'm a very passionate person and I lust, desire and love the one I'm with simultaneously without conditions but it’s important to understand the difference and not to confuse lust, SEX or desire with LOVE. Enjoy all that life has to offer, being human is endless. Being open about your levels of SEX can lead to a lifetime of LOVE. And I ask you what came first THE SEX OR THE LOVE?

2 comments:

  1. Wow...wow...The way you explain the passion you have is incredible... Thank you for sharing your thoughts and making sense of what love truly is... :)

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  2. Love has always been a sudden rush of adrenaline followed by an uncontrollable desire of touch.

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